libra man and capricorn woman

Libra Man - Capricorn Woman

I can't decide whether it's fortunate or unfortunate, but this relationship, mostly tense and difficult, is endowed with a very strong positive factor, it's just that the Libra man and his Capricorn lover do not always use it.

Libra is one of those men who can agree with many, if not all, ideas regarding women's independence.

Why not?

He is fair. He is tolerant and easily accepts changes both in his personal life and in society. He is considerate, logical, reasonable and willing to listen to both sides.

His Capricorn girlfriend was born under the Cardinal sign of leadership (like him), so she likes to manage her life, as well as everything and everyone, which will begin to manifest in her at about six years old. She makes a great Business Woman with a capital letter. She is an excellent performer and can calmly handle any business. She can support a family, taking on the role of not even a mother but a father, run an antique shop or a service station, or even a trucking company.

She can start a brokerage firm, run a car wash or a school for training shepherd dogs.

She, with her reserved noble manners (whatever her origin) and calm, common sense, was simply born to become a successful Business Woman.

Perhaps, a Libra man will not have anything against his girlfriend making a career.

Isn't this a positive factor in their relationship? And the fact that they do not always use this advantage is rather her fault than his.

Although she needs to lead, she really does not like to do it openly, directly, for show.

Capricorn (man or woman) prefers to be the one who pulls the strings behind the scenes, and it seems to you that events happen on their own.

In the business world, it is difficult for a Capricorn girl to find a leadership position that would suit her - progress has not yet reached the point of creating an ideal situation for her. So, with very few exceptions, she has two options: a subordinate and low-paying position, since she is a woman, or a position that matches her abilities, which can be achieved by aggressively advancing and attracting everyone's attention.

But she does not like to meekly follow orders and be a small cog in the machine, and a career that requires sacrificing the sanctity of her personal life is not the kind of leadership she aspires to.

So the typical rather timid Capricorn girl either finds her place as a professional in the humanities or some similar, more "single" occupation, or decides to devote herself to the home, satisfying the ambitions of her sign, quietly managing her husband, children, relatives and friends - and doing it so subtly that no one even suspects it.

Often it is she who quietly makes his career.

You know, right, that

behind every successful man there is a woman? Often it is the Capricorn woman.

Capricorns do not waste their precious time on what does not bring success.

Whatever she helps him to achieve, she always aims at the most fruitful result.

But the fact is that he may prefer that she follow her instincts for leadership outside the home: he is happy to be the man she loves, but he may rebel against his becoming her "lifelong career."

He is an Air element, and the first thing an "earth" woman must learn about an "air" man is that air cannot stand restrictions, otherwise it stagnates. And not only that: he will fly away at the first opportunity.

If that opportunity is always there, he probably won't do it.

But try to lock it up, and it can easily turn into a tornado or a hurricane of anger, and this cannot be contained.

If she is truly remorseful, he will come back, and she will have to be fair enough to admit her mistake. She will ask him to try to understand her in this situation.

No, let's change something.

Admitting your mistake and asking for understanding is okay. He will be absolutely angelic about it.

But it is unwise to ask him to understand her point of view. One point of view for Libra? Don't make this mistake if you expect him to compromise.

This is Libra's Achilles heel, and few of them realize it.

I personally think that it is not good to take advantage of a poor person's weakness, but there may be extenuating circumstances when the end justifies the means.

In such circumstances, a wise Capricorn woman will take his side from the very start.

She will make it clear that she was completely wrong, declaiming a kind of monologue (difficult for Capricorn, but she can rehearse, taking an example from his eloquence), containing all the reasons why he is right.

She will not make the slightest allowance for herself, making everything look completely absurd and unfair on her part.

It will work.

It will disarm him, and he will not be able to resist the "judge" instincts inherent in his sign.

He will begin to show her all the flaws in her argumentation, to show where she is unfair to herself, will offer to take on at least half the blame, and in the end will end up doing exactly what she wants from him: he will announce his full awareness of how he has offended, upset, and made her behave so possessively.

He will not even understand what the matter is, except that he somehow actually saw that her feelings must be justified.

Soon he will again become as sweet and sentimental as always, will ask her forgiveness and convince her to believe in the possibility of starting all over again.

Of course, she cannot immediately fall into his arms if snowflakes are still falling in her soul.

He will have to use all his charm so that she no longer feels rejected. And she will need all her gentle persuasion so that he will quickly forget about her coldness and discontent, and this woman can be surprisingly gentle when she trusts the person with whom she is close.

Sometimes their relationship will lack harmony, but it is achievable, they just need to understand >what

the other needs, acknowledge the differences in their desires, honestly try to soften those traits that offend the other, and learn what each of them admires.

If he helps her overcome the restraining influence of Saturn, he will be surprised and delighted by her unexpected and touching sensitivity.

The Moon will discover — both for herself and for him — that she can teach this person a lot by showing him the earthly reality of physical union and sexual intimacy.

Let her try to be more expressive, and he try to be more focused during intimacy with her.

Then everything will be fine.

Sometimes his logic and sober mind prevent him from understanding the human heart. He is fair and sympathetic, but often too reasonable to understand the true motives of her actions. Libras are not very perceptive in the field of human emotions — rather, they know how to analyze the results of emotions, their external manifestation.

Therefore, despite all his sophistication, he may seem cold to the Capricorn girl, because in the depths of her own soul there are so many of the most subtle and warm human desires...

They are both people of mood. He easily switches from a good mood to a bad one, being sweet and cheerful, then capricious and despotic several times a week or during one day.

Her moods are not so changeable and not so diverse.

Saturn's melancholy thickens slowly, but lasts a long time, and she has a very difficult time with this.

She needs his rainbows of hope.

He needs her reliability. And someone wrote that

being needed is as wonderful as being loved .

Sometimes even better .

When people need each other, their perhaps not very bright love quietly grows into a strong tree with roots that go deep into the ground, with branches that give shade... with leaves that sing a song in the wind, pretty enough for Libra, but also very necessary for Capricorn.