libra man and cancer woman

Relationships between Cancer and Libra

There is a square aspect between the signs of Cancer and Libra, and this is a combination of the elements of Water and Air.

Relationships of this type are always difficult and always interesting.

It is difficult to achieve harmony in them, and this is what makes them promising thanks to the feeling that these two will be rewarded with when they achieve a soul-stirring victory over their obvious and, it must be said, numerous differences.

Life itself forces them to learn the difficult path of compromise. Having mastered this lesson, one can rise to a higher level of happiness - easy paths will not lead there.

This is a truly worthy goal.

Sometimes it is difficult, but over time all the sharp edges are smoothed out if there is a sincere effort on both parts.

And do you know what will be the main reward?

Satisfaction from the knowledge that you have overcome yourself and that in competition with your own nature you have come a little closer to the angels.

I do not guarantee wings and the like, but a pair of halos may appear. More precisely, two auras, glowing with the beautiful colors of compatibility...

They will most likely not notice the halos above each other's heads, but they will see imaginary horns.

Such is human nature, and there is no need to imitate angels.

The first lesson that this couple must learn is to stop trying so desperately to be understood and to try to understand more.

Only this key will unlock the locked door between them, behind which lies the path to Peace and Good.

As I said in "Twelve Initiations into Love" at the beginning of this book, the sign of Cancer is growing up.

Cancers feel so much that they seem unable to express it; their dreams disturb them with a premonition of happiness and the approach of sorrows, as well as with memories of yesterday. They can do nothing when they cry from vague fear and depression, and the Moon periodically takes possession of their emotions, and they are as helpless before her magnetic attraction as the ocean with its ebb and flow. Sometimes they are quiet and thoughtful, and sometimes they amaze those around them with an amazing "lunar" humor - a little crazy, which often helps them forget their fears and certainly amuses everyone who is lucky enough to be nearby.

When a "child of the Moon" and a Libra person meet, it can look very cute.

Libra loves to laugh, and they are like rhythmic lyrical poems, and Cancer's phrases sound so wonderfully to the music of Libra's laughter.

This is pure entertainment, and random witnesses who happen to be near their home or office can unexpectedly enjoy this musical duet.

I say - home or office, because fate most often brings these signs together in a life situation related to home or career.

They seem to find it easier to achieve harmony in the family circle or as business partners than as friends, lovers, or spouses (but when considering the latter option, do not forget about the possible victory and gold award).

In reality, Cancers and Libras have much more possibilities , because their ruling planets, the Moon and Venus, are not hostile.

Since the Sun rules personality and the Moon emotions, these two find it easier to understand each other through emotions. The problem is that it is always difficult to break through the shell to the true nature of a Moon person.

Libras are patient, and they can win over Cancer with a gentle attitude ... and anticipation.

However, gentleness and tolerance alone may not be enough, because "moon" people are sensitive beyond measure.

Besides, despite their innate kindness. Libra is an Air sign, and the intelligence and logic of Air signs sometimes prevents them from truly understanding what drives other people.

Libras make brilliant lawyers and wise judges, but they often make bad psychologists. They will not look for deep reasons, busy with the fascinating game of human relationships on a superficial level, and with this it is difficult to penetrate under the shell that protects Cancer from the outside world. Libras who would like to understand what makes the crab crawl sideways should learn deep empathy, and not try to achieve the goal by the shortest route.

One of the main differences between them is that Libra is other-oriented, while Cancer is self-oriented.

If it looks like Cancers are more selfish, it is not far from the truth.

Libras are more concerned with the problems of their friends, the common cause, or the world in general than with their own. - And they are more extroverted, while Moon people are more introverted.

Indeed, many Cancers are gentle, impressionable, and sensitive people, often loving and gentle, but they still pay the most attention to themselves.

Since focusing on oneself ultimately affects one's health, Cancers get sick more often than they might.

The origins of Libra's illnesses are often rooted in an unhealthy lifestyle, herd mentality, love of parties, overeating, overdosing and overworking. Cancers, seeing this, usually get nervous, trying to convince Libra that there is no point in burning themselves like a candle, and from both ends at once. But if it were otherwise, how could Libra stay in balance?

Money is another area where these two look in different directions. Both financial and emotional security are equally important and vital for Cancer.

If they have one of these, they are irritable and unhappy.

If they have neither, they become so prickly and impossible that even their own mothers can no longer bear them, which is simply unbearable for Cancers.

But if they have everything, they magically turn into the most obedient, sweet and gentle creatures - even from the point of view of Libra, who sometimes expect too much from people, as if there could be a balance of pros and cons in the character of any person.

Despite health problems and lack of physical strength. Cancers ultimately turn out to be much more resilient in the art of survival than Libra.

It is Libra who is more likely to succumb to mental pressure, a nervous breakdown will throw them off balance, and emotional disappointments are fraught with serious illness. When Cancer gets sick, it can last a long time, but only because he clings so furiously to everything, not separating the good from the bad.

Sometimes, it takes a gentle reminder from Libra that it is time to stop holding on with all his might to something that should have been abandoned long ago.

But is it so easy to learn to let go?

Libra will have to go through many unpleasant moments, trying to free the Crab's claws from bad habits, wrong ideas and groundless fears.

If such a tug-of-war lasts for a long time, the delicate tissue of Libra's nervous system invisibly wears out, and some exhaustion of the spirit may set in, which, in turn, leads to apathy, overwhelming the cheerful, gentle and optimistic nature of Libra.

Among people, as in nature, too much water will make the air damp, foggy, and cold, but when there is just enough water, the air is gentle, fresh, and full of life-giving forces.

Если Весы пытаются сохранить что-то в секрете от Рака, они зря теряют время.

Раки используют всевозможные хитрости, чтобы вытянуть из вас то, что они хотят знать.

Рак может спросить: «Что обо мне думает этот человек, только честно?»

Весы отвечают: «Думаю, мне не следует

вмешиваться». Рак настаивает: «С твоей стороны это нечестно, разве я не помогал тебе информацией, когда ты в этом нуждался?»

Весы колеблются, вздыхают, сдаются и рассказывают Раку, все, что он хочет знать, следя за объективностью и стараясь вспомнить все хорошее наряду с плохим.

Когда Рак услышит то, что ему нужно, он может заявить: «Я так и думал, никогда больше не буду с ним разговаривать!» — и в раздражении уйти из комнаты, оставив Весы почти что в слезах из-за того, что его, миротворца от природы, превратили в подстрекателя.

Раки сверхсверхсверхчувствительны к малейшей критике и очень искусно вытягивают всю правду, а потом плачут в обиде или кусаются в ярости из-за половины этой правды, а вы знаете, что полуправда лишает Весы равновесия и выводит из себя.

The best they can do is to focus on the very real virtues of another, sometimes completely different.

I want to tell you especially for Libra that it was the reality of “lunar” dreams, mixed with incredible tenacity, that allowed Cancer Helen Kepler, who found herself completely blind and deaf when she was one year and eight months old, to triumph over misfortune.

She graduated with honors from college, learned to knit, embroider, type, swim, row, and ride a bicycle.

Traveling around the world, she gave inspiring talks (even though she had heard so little of human speech in her life) and wrote numerous articles and books to strengthen her faith in others.

Similarly, the sensitivity, intuition, and tenacity of Cancer allowed Nikola Tesla to use his remarkable memory and ingenuity to comprehend the wonders of electronics and to be the first to put two-phase current into practice, patenting 140 inventions of enormous practical importance, one of which made the concept of radio broadcasting and the production of electrical circuits possible. Despite his indifference and lack of interest, he held on to his dreams, working all his life, although he received recognition only after his death.

Every "child of the Moon" is made of the same stuff as Helen Kepler and Nikola Tesla.

In turn, Cancers can reflect on what the world would be like today if not for the Libra's desire for justice and need for creative expression.

It was the peacemaker of the Libra sign, Mahatma Gandhi, who combined the teachings of Hinduism with Jesus' "Sermon on the Mount" in perfect harmony of wisdom and love.