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The Relationship between Taurus and Libra

Anyone who wants to understand the relationship between Taurus and Libra (both ruled by Venus) must understand it themselves.

This is sometimes a step towards understanding who is first and who is second in the game in which these very different personalities are engaged.

Do not jump to the conclusion that Earth Taurus is much stronger than Air Libra, and that both of them can not withstand the onslaught of Fire signs such as Aries, Leo or Sagittarius.

Earth is certainly heavier, and Fire is more destructive than Air - remember what an earthquake or a volcanic eruption is.

Air is the main keeper of life, without it it is impossible to breathe.

It has no definite form, and it seems unable to affect anything as material as the Earth.

But if you have ever experienced a typhoon, you know that sometimes things are not at all what they seem.

Especially Air.

And especially Libra, which represents Air in its most active form.

Consider this a warning to those Oxen who think they can subdue these pleasant people by treading on Libra with a heavy hoof...

This is a thoroughly charming personality: a charming, pleasant creature with dimples in her cheeks, a clear, intelligent look, and a smile that warms the heart.

How can a person with such an overtly friendly appearance pose a threat?

But the Libra's gentle manners are just a camouflage, behind which hides a sharp, powerful logical mind. To win an argument and go their own way - for Libra, ultimately, this is all that is important.

And do not pay attention to the seductive Venus!

Although Libras of both sexes tend to act in the traditional Venus way and get their way, charming the opponent into surrender.

In this respect, Libra men are very similar to women of the same sign.

You say that Taurus is also ruled by Venus?

Yes, but with serious reservations.

Venus is not the only ruler of the Bulls.

Taurus borrows the influence of Venus from Libra - until the real ruler of Taurus is recognized - the planet Chiron, or Pan-Horus.

Therefore, Venus does not give them, as it does to Libra, all her blessings - for example, her secret strategy.

But Chiron will still endow Taurus with other types of power. Wait.

(Bulls will wait - they are patient.)

There is an inertia in the nature of the average Taurus, with which he perceives the traditions of society or the laws of the government, and not at all because these people or laws are right.

The typical Taurus is convinced that ignoring conventions and breaking laws can lead to trouble or spoil relationships, and this is exactly what is best to avoid at all costs - this is what Venus thinks.

She gives the same advice to Libra.

Both use the same advice in different ways.

Taurus will fiercely defend his principles and his loved ones.

He sees absolutely no point in muddying the waters or getting indignant over trifles.

Libra sees.

Winning intellectual victories - small, large or medium - is the meaning of their very existence.

If the stake is simply winning some argument, the typical Taurus will yawn or shrug and calmly say that he doesn't care what happens in this case, too small to interest him or too big to concern him.

But for Libra, there is no problem too small or too big.

If you are engaged in intense mental activity from the morning, when you decide which side of the bed to get up on, until late at night, when you go to bed not knowing whether to put on your pajamas or not, it is quite understandable why you feel slightly tired and broken, not to mention irritable.

Most Taurus can feel verbally broken from the very need to share all this thinking with Libra.

To Bulls, this sounds like nonsense.

Just do what you feel (and therefore believe) is right, and don't let anyone push you one step away from your position - that is, in short, the average, or typical, Taurus view of decision-making.

And continuous reasoning is the most useless and therefore vicious activity imaginable.

In an argument nobody ever wins, do they?

Not so.

Libra wins.

They invariably come out the winners - except in those arguments, which they quickly get bored with.

And this is not surprising, especially if you remember the weapons with which Venus has provided them.

Charm.

Tact.

Dimples (they have dimples somewhere on their bodies!

They just don't always show them).

Intelligence.

Gentle, calm manners.

Amazing smile.

But in addition to this arsenal, they can cunningly use the arrows of their logic against you when you least expect it.

Libra uses a method of conducting a discussion called "Socratic".

You have to watch them carefully.

And listen.

Taurus, who is too absorbed in resistance and does not pay attention to Libra's logic, can get caught in his own stubbornness.

Libra represents for Taurus that astrological sphere that reveals many useful things to them.

Taurus is a bit of a mystery to Libra.

Of course, Libra would be happy to unravel the secret of how Taurus manages to remain calm and serene amidst all the personal and social conflicts, to maintain inner stability and not suffer from insomnia all night long if they have to make a decision.

And God witnesses, Libra needs sleep and rest no less (even more) than Taurus to maintain their balance.