libra man and aries woman

Relationships between Aries and Libra

People born under the sign of Libra, reading this chapter, may exclaim that I am treating them unfairly, because I am an Aries myself (they always claim that someone is unfair to them).

Does Aries envy the amazing calm of Venus-ruled Libra when their scales are balanced, as they sometimes are? No.

On the Karmic Wheel of Life, these two signs are opposite, so each lacks what the other has. At least, the typical Aries will never openly admit that he is in any way envious of Libra, although secretly Aries would like to imitate their calm balance.

The word "balance" comes from the word "scales" - or vice versa. In both cases, these words and this Sun sign are connected.

Nothing is more important to Libra than balance. They are afraid of losing it, and yet they often lose it.

Aries may secretly envy Libra when they make a quick decision and then suffer the inevitable emotional trauma.

"Did I do the right thing?

Should I have said yes or no?"

And this after it is too late to change anything. Believe me, the indecision, the hesitation of Aries after what has been done are much more painful than the hesitation before that Libra suffers from.

No one is more charming, intelligent, and optimistic than Libra, who keeps a tight balance.

They are inimitable in their ability to harmoniously combine groups of people and avoid friction (when not personally involved).

Aries men and women admire and respect Libra for the virtues that they themselves lack. But Aries is also the Sun sign, the opposite of Libra, so

Libra, too, should admire and respect the virtues of the Mars type.

Does this sound like a command?

One of the most notable differences between Aries and Libra is that Aries's simplest statement sounds like a demand.

Even when Aries asks a question, it seems more like they are ordering than asking. On the other hand (and we must see both sides, since we are dealing with Libra), when Venus-ruled Libra asks a question or speaks out, they manage to make you feel vulnerable and unable to defend yourself.

Whether Libra asks, “Why are you so ignorant?” or remarks, “What you are doing shows a complete lack of culture,” it will strike a note that resembles a “lost string.” They speak softly, tenderly, as if enveloping the interlocutor in maple syrup. That is why Libra can argue with Aries for hours, leaving the impression that it was Aries who was impossibly rude and intolerable. It is not surprising that Libra often becomes a lawyer who can win any verbal duel in court.

If Libra-lawyers can fool the judge and win over an indifferent part of the jury, then you can imagine what happens in the battle of wits between them and the impulsive, impetuous, emotional Aries.

Perhaps Libra will accuse Aries of not making serious decisions so hastily, of rushing forward recklessly, without thinking about the possible consequences.

Then Libra will remind you of the beauty of the "Lady Justice" symbol with balanced scales in her hands.

Aries will be indignant: "Yes, but she has a blindfold!

How will she know right from wrong?" Libra will gently explain: "Well, dear, the blindfold protects from prejudice."

Then Aries may ask Libra if he (or she) knows the story of the donkey who starved to death because he could not decide which clover field to start with...

Finally Libra will smile, and since Aries is strongly influenced by that charming aura of Venus, the fire, with a final hiss, will die out.

The friendly, open Aries cannot resist a smile and a kind word for long, and he is too naive to suspect Libra of using his charm as a weapon, but Libra does exactly that.

During their relationship, Libra will almost always remain cold and motionless. But when Aries' aggressiveness becomes unbearable, this usually gentle personality can become enraged.

Libra instinctively avoids unpleasant clashes, but for the sake of their own precious peace of mind, if they feel that they are seriously threatened, they begin to act, and, as a rule, decisively.

To avoid a fight.

Aries will have to understand and accept Libra's logic.

True, although Aries respects their opposite Sun sign, they will be reluctant to consider Libra's judgment, much less accept it.

Aries realizes that Libra is fair, logical, and thinks well, and their decisions are almost always correct, but while Libra makes a decision, the typical Aries will go crazy waiting for the result.

The very word "decision" causes Libra to panic.

Aries does the opposite.

Need to make a decision?

Excellent.

Toss a coin or just do what you instinctively think is right and then forget it - that's the Aries motto.

Dive headfirst.

(And if the pond is shallow.

Aries will bump into a bump and, putting on a bandage, continue on his way.) This does not mean that Aries does not see the potential value of a good, smooth, safe path, it is simply interesting for him to quickly run to the right and to the left and see what is there. And this is one of those qualities that Libra admires in the opposite Sun sign.

If you want to test people's astrological knowledge, ask them which of these two signs has a more violent character.

Before you answer, think well. Libra is Air, and Aries is Fire.

Fire is more changeable and violent than air, but Libra is the main sign of the three Air signs, which means that Aries is also the main one, but still, we must not forget that in nature, air is not at all such a harmless element as it seems. And if it becomes aggressive?

Have you ever observed a calm, gentle tornado, cyclone or hurricane? Also remember that the main component of air is nitrogen, which is what produces powerful explosions.

So, who has a more dangerous character. Aries or Libra? Most books on astrology, referring to the fact that Libra is ruled by Venus, describe them as gentle, peaceful, calm and sweet. And indeed, for some time they are like that. Just do not anger them. Yet we must admit that by trying to emulate some of the positive traits of Libra, Aries could benefit greatly.

These two often argue. But, frankly speaking, the goal of the quarrel for Libra is to win and achieve final peace and justice, and for Aries it is to win and prove that he is right (even when it is not) in order to satisfy the strong "ego" of Mars.

The relationship between Aries and Libra is usually a successful experience for both.

But if there is a negative Sun-Moon aspect between their horoscopes, they can have periods full of friction and conflict. Harmonious aspects of the luminaries give Libra an atmosphere of freedom of thought and action, which works well for the ego of Aries. Typical Libra usually treats Aries gently, which helps to bring out the best qualities of the Mars nature. Instead of forcibly fitting Aries into some kind of behavior pattern, Libra more often recognizes his individuality and respects it. Under the influence of the natural instinct to imitate the opposite Sun sign, Aries often finds that a relationship with a friend, relative, workmate, lover of the Libra sign does not affect his Mars courage and does not interfere with his mobility, but makes his character more tolerant, balanced. And, on the other hand, the indecisiveness of Libra gradually disappears, they go more firmly to the goal. As always happens, this combination works better when composed of people of the opposite sex. If Aries and Libra are of the same sex, the periodically arising feelings of envy, regret and competition often affect their relationship.

Aries should try to understand that Libra needs to conserve energy and not spend it without urgent need, which Aries is often forced to do under the influence of Mars. This is Libra's way of maintaining physical and emotional balance, and not laziness at all. When Aries sincerely tries to soberly assess their differences and honestly tries to sympathize with Libra's nature, Libra should return this favor with love and joyful gratitude, which will greatly raise Aries's spirits. Libra will rather be happy and pleasant than capricious and grumpy if Aries is honest with them.