virgo man and aries woman

Relationships between Aries and Virgo

Aries loves to generalize, never worry about details and gets bored if he has to do so.

Virgos are meticulous, love to analyze details and hate commonplaces.

This immediately gives you some idea of ​​the difference between these two Sun signs.

All Aries actions begin with pure feeling, he trusts his emotions and is skeptical of excessive practicality.

Virgos are practical, they trust their mind and are skeptical of pure feelings and emotions.

When Aries are upset, they shout about it at every crossroads and share their grievances so that they end as soon as possible.

When Virgos are upset, they hide it inside and hide their grievances, accumulating the rust of indignation.

Aries do not care about their physical health and yet rarely suffer from chronic diseases.

Virgos, on the contrary, are extremely concerned about this and yet often find in themselves various symptoms of diseases.

But that is not all.

Both are willing to help others, although their motives for doing so are somewhat different.

Aries do this because they feel good when they make someone happy, because they prove to themselves that they can work small miracles.

Virgos do this because they get a morbid pleasure from watching confusion add to chaos when, in their practical opinion, a little common sense would untie all the knots.

It is typical for a Virgo to come in, pick up a tool, make some adjustments here and there, and go on their way, not wanting or expecting gratitude.

Aries will not wait long for gratitude either, but they want to hear it. If it does not come, they will be offended and angry, unlike Virgos, who do not expect much from people and therefore calmly accept ingratitude, simply adding it to the list of the many imperfections of human nature.

Both, however, have purity of intention.

Each yearns for beauty of the spirit and seeks a sparkling ideal.

Aries and Virgo, having set out together in search of truth and beauty, will part ways at the fork in the road. Aries blindly and instinctively believe that they will find what they are looking for.

Virgos have almost no hope of this, and if they do reach their goal, they will certainly find a flaw in it.

And yet, despite all these differences, Aries and Virgo can have a comfortable relationship.

If it is business, then admiration and respect, as well as a mutual desire to help each other, will almost always be the result of this union.

If it is friendship, then perhaps they will someday go into business together.

If it is family, then the combination of these two different characters under the influence of the fluctuations of the Sun signs can bring great satisfaction to both.

Aries and Virgos often confide in each other things that they would not tell anyone else. They seem to feel that they can trust each other, although, as a rule, one has difficulty understanding the other.

However, no matter how close two people of the signs of Aries and Virgo are, Aries can feel deep dissatisfaction with Virgo if he is late for a date, plays the fool, or becomes careless and irresponsible.

The Ram will never be able to treat work in the same way as Virgo.

What he considers harmless procrastination, Virgo considers almost as sinful waste of precious time. Of course, after all the work is finished (and this can take up endless time and attention), when the conscience is calm, because everything is in its place, Virgos, free from worries, can lead a very interesting, sometimes even shockingly extravagant personal life.

Sooner or later, when they have already lived together for a long time, Aries will be sure to remind Virgo of her excessive attention to minor concerns and will receive approximately the following answer: “What minor concerns? I do not devote too much time to trifles.” The further dialogue will look approximately like this. Aries:

Oh really?

Remember that morning last week when you skipped your daily shower because you couldn't find any Ivory soap and wouldn't use any other, then spilled a drop of ink on your shoe and found a fly in your soup at lunch? You had a splitting headache and indigestion for days afterward, due to nerves. Virgo: You are, as usual, somewhat exaggerating.

The indigestion lasted only three hours and forty-five minutes, and was not caused by nerves, but by that awful greasy soup I ate.

The headache lasted sixty-five minutes, not several days, and it came on because I hadn't gotten enough sleep the night before.

I hadn't skipped the shower because I couldn't find the soap I always use, but because I was late for a date.

As for the ink, of course I was a little upset, because the shoes cost twenty-two dollars, and I'd only had them for a couple of years.

I can't afford to throw money away.

That last remark is a tactful way of accusing Aries of being extravagant.

Virgos, even when very angry, carefully watch their speech and are almost never impolite .

Because Virgos are so analytical and adore clarity, Aries tends to think of them as picky and cold.

However, they are far from cold and are the most sentimental of all the Sun Signs at heart. That is why they are often misunderstood.

Their very insight implies high ideals. If the people they have to live with do not live up to these ideals, Virgos become very disappointed and eventually become irritable.

Aries are the ones who irritate them most often, since Virgos do not like to be openly firm, and with Aries this is sometimes simply necessary.

Aries' impulsiveness can make Virgos feel uncomfortable with their inability to change the situation, and sometimes they will try to suppress this feeling with a critical attitude, silently expressing disapproval.

It doesn't really matter how it happens. Any form of disapproval throws Aries off-kilter.

The typical Aries tries to avoid reasoned discussion or Virgo's cold, sensible remarks about what is right and what is wrong.

Aries does not like formalism and criticism.

And yet, when there is a favorable aspect between their Sun and Moon in their birth charts, the Aries-Virgo pair can bless each other with many gifts.

In such a combination of signs, Aries can, to his own surprise, follow Virgo's calm example and take seriously her always well-thought-out and helpful advice. And Virgo will also surprise herself by allowing Aries to control her and getting rid of many of the prohibitions and some traits of her usually imperturbable character.

All this will help the smooth relationship of this combination, if each of them more often begins to pay attention to the merits of the other, rather than focusing on the differences.

Virgos rarely know that Aries can sense with certainty whether Virgo's concern for their well-being comes from genuine devotion, tenderness, and friendship, or simply from official duty.

And if there are no good feelings, they will rather try to manage on their own than accept help from someone who does not have real sympathy for them.

Although at first glance they seem so different, they may well have many happy surprises if they want to find a common language.

Virgo will discover in Aries a person who is truly worth helping and who will generously reward her with warm enthusiasm and touching gratitude, and will even be able to unlock the little doors of her prohibitions and secret desires.

Aries will find in Virgo the sincere understanding he needs, and a heart as honest and true as his own.

Virgo will teach Aries to see beauty in small things, to understand the wisdom of waiting and to believe in the inevitable success of patience.

Aries will help Virgo believe in herself.