cancer man and cancer woman

Cancer Man — Cancer Woman

If a Cancer man and woman decide to stay without their protective shells for so long that they fall in love, then, as a rule, they want security, and therefore, marriage. Some may try to tolerate an open relationship, but only for a short time.

It is extremely doubtful that any Cancer could feel comfortable for a long time if he has a heavy burden of an illegal union on his soul (what will his mother think?).

Only those rare "children of the Moon" who, for some reason, are frightened by family ties, are quite happy without marriage, but even they will avert their eyes when passing by their neighbors.

Yes, there are Cancer prostitutes, but, in truth, they are the most unhappy and emotionally frustrated women on earth, except, of course, for the time when they are counting their earnings.

The storm of the sexual revolutions of the Age of Aquarius has broken right over the heads of typical Cancers.

But tradition and the sanctity of home life are too deeply imprinted in their lunar

subconscious for Cancers to give up them with a light heart.

Pay no attention to what you may hear from some frivolous "moonbird" trying to seem to be involved "in it." Listen to the stars.

They are older and wiser.

Watch, wait - and you will see.

They will certainly find many common hobbies.

It is so wonderful to study family albums, smile at each other's childhood drawings, collect dirty old coins, cry on each other's comfortable shoulders, decorate the house, take care of ambushes, travel, tell each other dreams and dreams, read or write poetry, sing or listen to music, run along the beach collecting pieces of wood, scuba dive, make wishes on the new moon and go crazy during the full moon.

She will cook for him, and he will earn money for her. But since the sign of Cancer is a feminine sign, and God's gift of the Moon is given to both women and men, he can cook for her, and she can earn money. All Cancer men love to eat well, and most of them are also good cooks.

All Cancer women love extra income, and most of them know how to earn it well.

But it can be the other way around.

The first on the list of their possible problems will be grievances, and expenses on handkerchiefs can affect the family budget. Both of them often whine, cry and even sob over the real or imagined neglect of their spouse, over a lost childhood, and sometimes for no reason at all, unless their anxieties intensify and fade away with the moon.

The next most important problem will be food. Those rare Cancers who are indifferent to food and to where, when and how they eat have the Ascendant in Gemini, Aquarius, Sagittarius and Libra or their birth date is inaccurate. The typical Cancer is usually shocked by the idea of someone else going hungry, but the idea of themselves being threatened by hunger is simply terrifying!

Once the problem of emotional outbursts and fussing over food, there comes the problem of children.

If the planetary placement of one of them indicates a lack of desire to have offspring, the other will feel deprived.

If both want children, the grounds for disagreement will appear later, when the chicks are ready to fly the nest.

Some Cancer mothers do not believe that their son is old enough to date a girl or live separately in his own apartment until he is thirty or thirty-five years old.

Some Cancer fathers (and mothers, too) do not believe that their daughter should marry before she has a suitor who is rich, healthy, and intelligent, has an impeccable reputation, cherishes her as a rare treasure, and earns at least $100,000 a year.

(Parents with both the Sun and Moon in Cancer may actually believe that the only person worthy of their daughter is the President of the United States.)

Next on the list is the money issue.

In fact, money is not the last thing in Cancer's value system, but sometimes falling in love prevents them from touching on this topic, which can disrupt the harmony of love.

This is true.

Nevertheless, they should discuss the financial issue at the very beginning. Here is what I would advise them: separate checkbooks, separate savings accounts, separate stocks, stamp collections, and the ability to spend money independently. Cancer is hypersensitive, and this concerns money even more than anything else. But it is unlikely that one will be able to keep their financial affairs a secret from the other, because both of them are experts both in keeping their secrets and in finding them out of each other.

The last (on the list, but not in importance) problem is sex. Let us hope that they will try to understand the peculiarities of their common astrological symbol, Cancer. Have you observed Cancers in nature?

They have, as I have already said, a peculiar habit of moving towards a set goal.

First they back away, as if the goal does not interest them, and only then sharply rush forward.

If Cancers remember this deeply rooted habit, passed on to them from their natural brothers, she will not cry, feeling that she has been neglected, when one evening he declares that he will sleep on the couch in order to watch the moon from the window.

Instead, she can smile, knowing that very soon he will return to the bedroom - she has only to go to the couch in his favorite nightgown to wish him goodnight.

And he will not feel a pang of male fear when she turns her back on him on the night of their wedding anniversary, muttering: "Goodnight, honey, don't forget to set the alarm."

And this after her eyes have been promising him all day that they will repeat that exciting night tonight...

Instead, he can smile and wait for her to show her true desires. They both hide their true desires behind a game of "come on guess" because they are afraid of rejection or misunderstanding, and they are also afraid of revealing a lack of mutual need.

In this way, each of them tries to outwit the other, forcing him to make the first move.

Apart from this habit of playing hide-and-seek at night, their love in its physical expression is capable of giving them rare satisfaction. There will not be too ardent passion here, but they do not expect it from each other.

Although both are very receptive to sensuality and are able to respond to it, in intimacy they seek more love than eroticism.

A Cancer man or woman can lose heart if sex has not been "tuned" to the highest wave with the help of foreplay and gentle touches, or, even worse, if the partner after their physical fusion has not confirmed his love with gentle words and caresses.

Love for Cancer is an integral part of sexual arousal and satisfaction. If Cancer has felt that he has been ignored all day, at night he will “snap his claws” at the approach of his spouse, and then crawl into the cold shell of loneliness, waiting for apologies and justifications that can resurrect his desire.

Their very first sexual feelings may be tinged with shyness and caution.

But one day at the full moon, which can act excitingly on Cancers, they will stop being afraid of themselves and each other, and it will be unclear who is seducing whom.

Poetry and music make the sexual pulse of Cancer lovers strong and full, while financial problems simply deprive their love of all life. The shadow of poverty can temporarily dull their desires, and the feeling that they are not understood can cool their passion. But here the services of a sexologist are hardly needed.

Everything will resolve itself if they have enough money, a lot of love and a lot of sympathy... There are rarely any betrayals between two Cancers.

If this happens, the lunar imperiousness does not cause jealousy, but rather a firm determination to defeat the rival.

Secrecy is what they need to overcome in themselves first of all.

Although Cancers of both sexes believe that they have the right to their own secrets, neither of them likes to have anything kept secret from him or her. If they try to be more open, try to do without dodginess and evasiveness, they will be able to avoid many troubles. He may think that she has someone else on her mind, whereas the whole point is that there have been no letters from her mother for a long time, or that he has not noticed her new negligee.

And she may think that he is seeing another woman, although his whole secret is in his worries about paying for the car.

In both cases, an honest confession will return everything to its place and turn tears into laughter, because both know that humor is an excellent defense, the most reliable and safe remedy against taking life too seriously.

In the 1-1 model, the relationship of the "moon" girl and her gentle Cancer more than anyone else depends on their Moon signs and on the aspect formed by their Moons.

If they are harmonious, these two will be very cozy together. But even if their horoscopes do not promise them serene happiness, they will be able to achieve prosperity together and will be able to give each other enough tenderness and loving care. They may snap at each other under the waning moon, but on the waxing moon, these two will travel across the sea of ​​imagination into a world of lavender madness and silver witchcraft, and the moonlight will bring them together.