cancer man and aquarius woman

Cancer Man - Aquarius Woman

The Aquarius girl is mistaken if she thinks that her affection will make the Cancer man forget about home and mother.

Aquarius reasonably believes that what happened yesterday is no longer important today and that it is time to be mature enough to understand that everything important is in the future, and not emotional attachment to what has passed and will never return. She may even go so far as to tell him: "Grow up!"

Aquariuses are not distinguished by tact and in this they are very similar to Sagittarius.

Her attempts to bring the Crab's views on life to maturity will only offend him.

He may snap, creep into the cozy hollow of his memory tree and hide there from the storm-like realism of Uranus.

Yes, it is frightening. It makes him feel very, very lonely if the woman he loves does not see how necessary he is for these nostalgic returns to those quiet and safe days of childhood, when he was so upset by the rudeness of the world or the indifference of his friends and comrades.

In fact, he never wanted to become an adult. Like Gemini, the Cancer man secretly wishes to remain a child.

When he was a boy, there were so many wonders he could wonder at... so many things that made him cry and laugh! And he enjoys setting off again on this fantastic journey...

"How boring she is!" he says to himself. "She has no imagination.

She thinks and talks like a man.

And acts like a man."

But he doesn't need a mannish realist! He dreams of a sweet, pretty, perfect creature, gentle and affectionate, like his mother.

Of course, he is wrong: the word "boring" is the least appropriate for this girl.

It's just that this is Crab's favorite word (after "cruel"), and what else can he call a woman who does not want to cry and laugh with him, who refuses to adapt to all his moods? As I have said in other Aquarius chapters, Uranus-ruled people have a strange habit of crying when they are happy and laughing when their heart is broken.

It will take Cancer a while to realize this, not to mention that he will have a hard time understanding how to keep up with her mood swings - from tomboy to princess, from relaxed and languid to lively and edgy. Serves him right, indeed! He is easily succumbed to mood swings himself, but with this woman he will be forced to swallow his own pill. Her whims and fancies are even more unpredictable than his own. They deserve each other, rest assured.

The Aquarius woman does not need sympathy, but she is not heartless, and she does have feelings, although sometimes she forgets to save them for personal relationships. When she realizes that she hurts her Cancer lover, she does everything she can to make amends and show how much she really cares for him. The problem is in the ways in which she chooses to demonstrate her devotion to her friend (and her friends are everyone, including her lover or husband).

She is able to come up with something that will make poor Cancer feel sick because of nervous shock.

But she tries!

Can he at least believe that she is trying?

Of course, he can, he just needs to realize that she has an out-of-the-box mindset.

Therefore, he probably won't trust her in anything else, but he won't decide on a joint bank account.

A typical Aquarius way of handling a checkbook is to juggle numbers endlessly, and it's impossible to keep track of it.

Cancer is terrified of this.

Crabs are almost neurotically fussy when it comes to anything that has to do with cash: expenses or income, receipts or expenses.

But if he is so fussy about everything that concerns money, what right does he have to call her fussy? It's good that they both have a sense of humor, which can always save the situation, but it's better not to sort out the relationship during certain phases of the Moon and the retrograde motion of Uranus.

She used to think sex was fun.

After she became a woman, she thought it was fun.

And she still thinks it is a rather strange way for a man and a woman to express their need for each other.

One day she will surprise herself by sharing everyone's point of view on earthly love between a man and a woman, and she will learn to get complete pleasure from it, especially with her tender Crab. This man and this woman will feel a quiet, vague call for each other, and they will both be able to come to freedom from prejudices and conventions.

This flickering link between them often flares up with the diamond brilliance of ecstasy and passion, and their intimacy can be guided by their imagination. Gradually, he will discover that she not only understands his deep and passionate desires, but she may be one of the very few people who are able to see what is under the Crab's shell, under his mask of well-being and seriousness - his dreamy, subtle soul.

He himself will be surprised by his discovery.

She is full of surprises and is able to discover the unexpected even in him, and he hates monotony and monotony as much as she does. His traditionalism and refined, often old-fashioned manners will not deceive her for a second.

They are both natural, and they have a subconscious sense of nature - perhaps that is why their sexual union can be as calming as a summer night breeze.

There are explosions in their relationship, and this cannot be explained without the concepts of "cardinal" and "constant".

He will insist on his "primacy", no matter how gentle his behavior and no matter how affectionately he covers it up.

She is "constant" and will categorically refuse to be led.

As long as she is allowed to go her own winding and looping path, she is cheerful and carefree.

But every time he tries to change her direction or show her the way, she becomes stubborn and pretends that it does not apply to her, or explodes.

Her sudden Uranian outbursts of rage pass quickly if she is given the opportunity to heal the offended soul alone and not to find fault with it anymore.

But if he continues to curb her freedom, he will receive in return even more recklessness. There is no point in trying to confine her "airy" essence in a certain form, and the sooner he understands this, the better for both. She must remember that, no matter how good the promises of the new, he must always look back at the good that was yesterday, because it is so familiar and reliable!

She must not touch his secrets and mysteries, and her Uranus lightning must be completely tame while he dreams or sees his dreams.