gemini man and aries woman

Aries-Gemini Relationship

Working together, these Sun Signs could sell Manhattan to the Indians - electrical breakdowns, burglars, creaky subways, uncollected garbage and all.

However, they are both idealists, and after complaining about the Indians getting such crap, for a couple of strings of beads and a badge, they would return New York to them, along with all the other rights that the white man stole from his red-skinned brother.

If they could, of course.

Since both Aries and Gemini are sympathetic and both have the talent to creatively and persistently offer their goods, they can reap fantastic benefits from joint projects.

But both also have the ability to concentrate great power or money in their hands only from time to time.

Perhaps this is precisely why they rarely achieve the success they could achieve, given all the emotional (Aries) and mental (Gemini) energy with which they take up what interests them. Unfortunately, everything is limited only to impulses.

Nothing holds the interest of either of these signs for more than a minute.

Well, sometimes two or three.

Since Aries is seething with naive ardor, and Gemini is determined to gain absolute independence, breaking all spiritual ties, maturity of thought is rarely the companion of their joint efforts.

The combination of qualities in this Sun Sign conjunction pattern could be said to be a picture of optimism, with brief (usually very brief) flashes of sensitivity and hidden insecurity. When Aries and Gemini meet as neighbors, friends, business partners, relatives, lovers, or spouses, their individual desire for freedom is redoubled against anyone who would keep them in the morass of convention and caution. Together or alone, they look young, act alike, and so, quite naturally, sometimes behave like children. And children are often attractive, simple, and lovable, but unintentionally selfish, irrational, and thoughtless. Representatives of these signs can be the same.

It is better if both or at least one of them manages to eventually grow up or spend most of their time playing in the sandbox with a couple of brightly colored buckets and big shovels for you-know-what and be nice to each other and to the rest of the world.

At their core, both Aries and Gemini are honest (especially Aries), but these two can fool around so much that they forget where self-deception begins.

This is innocence or ignorance, if you like.

In other words, they are as skilled at deceiving themselves as they are at deceiving the public.

If a counterfeit is being sold, Gemini is usually the first of the two to suspect it, for he has the sharpness of Mercury and the analytical mind, but he is capable of outwitting himself by falling captive to his own imagination.

As for Aries, it is very difficult for him to tell the difference between what glitters so seductively and real gold. He can acquire this skill only by learning many bumps.

I was talking about two. Actually, perhaps we should talk about three, for although Aries is definitely one indivisible personality, Gemini is definitely two people: the person he or she really is, and the person he or she would like to be. Twins, you know. These two signs, who are essentially compatible, would do well to break away from time to time and take a fresh look at each other from a distance.

This clears away some of the fog that inevitably gathers between them.

Aries instinctively pushes forward, convinced of both the sincerity of their motives and the ultimate victory, with little or no time to calmly think things over.

Gemini, on the other hand, calculates and classifies all possible maneuvers and conclusions with the cool detachment and logic that is so characteristic of all Air signs (there are two more - Aquarius and Libra). Yet Gemini's mental efforts do not always bring results. Gemini may quickly calculate that things will not work out, but often decide to outwit fate or themselves with a clever Mercurian strategy.

There are other differences in the behavior of these signs.

Aries, ruled by Mars, strives to be the main one in everything, leading, directing, always taking the initiative and inspiring with enthusiasm and daring.

He will accept any idea that appeals to emotions, to personal relationships.

The fickle sign of Gemini prefers an impersonal manner and will accept ideas that appeal to the mental deductive process, appealing to the logic and reason of Mercury, while his real "I" remains in the background, observing. Aries delights in imagining himself on a white horse in front of a jubilant crowd, and Gemini is not overwhelmed by a thirst for glory.

Freedom from responsibility, the opportunity to try new ideas, discover new places, things, people are much more important to them.

Gemini approaches everything from a rational point of view, but they like the emotionality of Aries, although they themselves may not be carried away by his ideas. Mercury-ruled people understand the reckless impulses of Mars, yet they realize that their best path is to avoid getting involved in an emotional trap whenever possible.

Close human relationships that threaten to become a burden, long-term work without change or obstacles - anything that crushes dreams or clips Mercury's wings arouses Gemini's suspicion.

This Air sign strives to soar above the fire, which infuriates the Fire sign Aries.

By keeping aloof and out of reach, Gemini often achieves the freedom that Aries also seeks, but does not always find.

Of course, too much mental and emotional freedom can create its own tangles, and then it is the directness of Aries that can help untangle the knots.

Fortunately, the typical Aries not only senses the duality of Gemini, but is also usually ready to accept it.

Therefore, such a union is often beneficial for Gemini, because their dreams will come true, simply fade away, or become unattainable depending on their understanding (or lack thereof).

A representative of the sign of Gemini will dream both in early childhood and in old age.

He always pursues and never achieves. To most people, Mercury's curiosity and experimentation seem like a rug of jumbled, shifting patches, but Aries seems to recognize that these myriad interests are Gemini's attempt to piece together the versatile, captivating, Mercurial personality that Aries finds fascinating.

Aries is unlikely to stop Gemini from flitting from subject to subject, searching for all the answers in a continuous stream of imagination and static energy. Interrupting the "Mercury bird" when he (she) is speaking is like trying to catch fireflies, and it is strange, but Aries, usually a great master of interrupting, understands this. These two constantly interrupt each other without getting annoyed, and this is the most wonderful thing about their union.

If there is a negative aspect between the Sun and the Moon or Ascendant in their birth charts.

Aries may accuse Gemini of being too absent-minded and lacking in concrete action and will try to demand direct answers from them.

Then Gemini's sharp tongue may hurt Aries's easily hurt "it" and a tribal battle will break out. And yet the wind will soon change, because both of them rarely allow themselves to grieve for long.

Aries and Gemini are generally good friends, they can debate for a long time until they come to a common opinion.

The Mercurial mind of Gemini, no matter how cunningly it is sometimes hidden under a mask of calm and quiet charm, is always in motion. As long as Aries does not try to shackle Gemini's free spirit with too many questions and too many demands, everything will go quite smoothly between them. Aries and Gemini can build castles in the air from their combined mental images, high enough to reach for the stars.

But the foundation must be strong and stable, or they will collapse. But even if the foundation is strong, the top may simply not be visible - all its rainbows, butterflies and gnomes...

The main thing is patience, and then Aries and Gemini, eternally young, always looking for Shangri-La, the Emerald City of Oz, Wonderland and the Fountain of Youth, have a better chance of finding all these places than most people or than either of them separately.