aries man and aries woman

Aries Woman — Aries Man

The Aries girl is independent, bright and smart, but any Aries man, in his opinion, possesses such wonderful qualities to an even greater extent.

He will periodically demand recognition of his merits, trying in every possible way to convince both her and himself of this. If she tries to surpass him, he, becoming very excited, will try to convince her that the victory should remain with the man.

The Aries young man will have to choose: either subjugate the girl at the very beginning of the game, or say goodbye to her.

They will have many noisy clashes with tears before the girl stops resisting. But if she becomes a woman of her own free will, and not by compulsion, she will blossom into a beautiful flower.

It is better not to even try to demand that the Aries woman leave her job and devote herself to indulging his whims. There are other ways to reveal her femininity and establish his Male rights.

If she is forced to sacrifice her studies in order to bring him slippers or to help him achieve his personal goals, forgetting her own (which often happens), and does not come to such a decision herself, it is better for them to separate at once.

It would also be wise for them to divide the expenses: he takes care of the daily expenses and bills, and they spend her money on special occasions... when they want to satisfy some mutual extravagant desire.

It is necessary for the Aries man to know: his role in their couple is worthy of a man.

It is very important to tell him about this directly and clearly at the very beginning.

A girl under the influence of Mars will accompany her chosen one in all life's troubles, even if he is not around.

Perhaps, she will begin to boss him around by phone, with the help of telegrams or letters.

Since the Aries man knows that no one has been able to boss him around since the day he was born, he will probably want to get even at the first sign of a war declared by the Aries girl, but it would be better for him to suppress his irritation and closely engage in her taming.

Every Aries woman, deep down, passionately wants to see her man as a protector.

In her dreams, she is always gentle and meek, and he is kind, affectionate, strong.

And it is best for him to be like that.

A man who is constantly trying to please is not interesting to her, and one who goes too far in an attempt to tame her is not needed.

He should not encroach on her personality and interfere in her life. His masculinity, conditioned by the influence of Mars, makes the Aries woman look at her chosen one with wide open eyes and fills her with delight during a walk or in the solitude of the bedroom, but these quivering feelings apply only to love romance. The Aries woman strictly separates the realm of feelings from everyday life. A man should never forget this if he wants to keep her. To think that such a woman will wait for his signals or follow his instructions is stupid, and ignoring her is simply dangerous.

Such mistakes are possible until the Aries man understands that she will not cross the line, but will not submit to the influence of a dictator, because they are both cast in the same mold, which, of course, was destroyed after the creation of the Solar sign of Aries.

The Aries girl shed sweet tears, reading about the prince who bravely went into the forest to find his princess and awaken her from a cold sleep with the kiss of True Love. (The heart of an Aries woman begins to flutter at the very thought of True Love: her idealism in matters of the heart is as eternal as Spring itself.)

But, dear Aries girl, admit honestly, at least to yourself, what dreams would you have of a fairy tale about an ardent, courageous princess who bravely went into the forest on horseback to find her prince and save him from the evil witch? And what about those other fairy tales in which you still believe? Picture a refined Cinderella, with red cheeks, blowing away a strand of hair that has fallen on her forehead, sweaty and exhausted, as she tries to squeeze her prince's foot into the glass slipper to see if it fits him! Mother Nature knows what she's doing. The relationship between a man and an Aries woman will be much more successful if she allows him to steal her Mars thunder. And let him take the initiative.

And besides, having overcome her own stubbornness, she will eventually understand that behind the aggressive appearance of Aries there is an amazing idealism and a passionate desire to be needed and noticed.

Excellent, she should look at him at the moment when he, showing off on a white horse, embodies the desire for leadership inherent in Aries, hiding behind this a secret fear that no one will be able to love him the way he would like (and this is very important), if he himself does not achieve this.

Such a man can be very gentle and caring with all his imaginary independence, he, like no one else, knows how to hide even the most severe pain. If anyone, then the Aries woman knows this well.

Since both of them are molded from the same dough, it would seem that there is nothing easier than finding a common language, but it will take more than one painful lesson until they understand the futility of endless mutual challenges. Often the last lesson is a bitter experience, when, even understanding everything perfectly, Aries are forced to part.

If an Aries woman turns all her aggression on her male opponents (except for one, of course), he will adore her for it and will more than reward her for every friendly step taken towards him.

Two Aries, it would seem, should be wonderful sexual partners, since both expect from love the unity of soul and body, which poets write about and in which almost every Aries believes as an absolute romantic dogma.

The instinctive thirst for kinship of souls makes loving Rams have no doubt that their union is not only made in heaven, but will not fall apart on earth until death, and in the other world.

However, in order to achieve such harmony, they will have to overcome a serious obstacle - a very strong, though not always conscious, pride of this Solar sign.

All interests, knowledge and desires related to sex in Aries are based on the sometimes unintentional, but use of a partner for their own satisfaction, the desire not to give him the greatest pleasure, but to achieve satisfaction themselves.

Doctors David Rubin, Master and John, Kinchy and Freud explained all this, checked, researched, analyzed, photographed, recorded on magnetic tape, listened to both sides, wrote about almost everything, but did not demonstrate it to an audience. (The stage, the cinema and the magazines actively compete with each other in this.)

But most men and women still have not received answers to their many questions.

These lovers, who are under the influence of Mars, would do well to acquire a huge poster depicting a sail in love with blissful smiles on her faces.

The inscription at the bottom should read: "Love begins when the desires of another become more important to you than your own..."

Such a poster should be hung above the bed next to a rug depicting the wedding of Romeo and Juliet.

When this childish vanity can be overcome with the help of tenderness and mutual understanding, the sexual relationship of two Aries can become an ecstatic exchange. For them, sexual Love consists of strange contradictions, turning their partnership into an incredible combination of explosive desire, direct and piercing, ardent and uncontrollable... and visions of flowers in the rain, gentle waves licking white sand, and snow sparkling with diamonds. The strong influence of Mars, softened by the naivety and wonderful amazement of the symbolic Aries Child, creates a rare and amazing mixture of unrestrained, stormy emotions, silence and calm dawn...

Obviously, a sexual union between two Rams in its best time can become a good school that will teach them to treat each other with tenderness.

And even in the worst time, this union will be interesting.

What will happen in the soul of an Aries woman if her chosen one starts flirting with other girls? And what will happen to him if she smiles invitingly at another man?

An emotional explosion comparable to the explosion of a hydrogen bomb, the consequences of which will be as nightmarish for love as the consequences of a bomb explosion for all living things on the planet.

Every Ram will definitely let the other know that he will not allow anyone to encroach on his freedom. However, in order for him to recognize the same right for his partner, both will have to work hard.

They will understand that love is not a game at all that must be won, not a battle that must be won, not a prize that must be obtained. This is a gift, and it should be joyfully presented and enthusiastically accepted. Aries demand a lot from life and, as a rule, achieve a lot.

But demanding love is pointless.

The Aries man will make it clear to his lady that she does not dare to be jealous of him, but she herself should better not look at another man.

She also does not accept jealousy, but if she notices that he looks at another woman with even the slightest interest, then she is not responsible for herself.

Do you know what this means? It's selfishness.

Aries themselves probably disagree with this, but they'd better think twice.

Ram may be overcome with jealousy if they notice a smile on the face of a sleeping lover - Who is he or she dreaming about? And believe me, many Aries have asked more than once in the morning: "You must have had pleasant dreams last night?

And who was it that you dreamed about?"

And almost certainly the answer was: "My dreams are none of your business.

Besides, you were not in a hurry to get up today. Were you probably dreaming about that girl you flirted with in the store last week?"

Dialogues can be different, but such clashes are inevitable if two Rams have made a promise to love, respect and cherish the other, but have never promised to obey! These two jealous people simply need to constantly convince each other of their unfading admiration, since the subconscious fear of losing love underlies the jealousy of all Aries, a fear that seems incompatible with the conscious desire for personal independence, conditioned by the influence of Mars. Aries, like no one else, obey sudden impulses, forgetting about everything in the world. An Aries man who suddenly sets off on a new and exciting goal that he has recently discovered is in fact being true to himself, and an Aries woman who faces the truth must admit that she cannot love a man who has been unfaithful to himself even once. This cherished goal does not necessarily have to be a new love. If a woman trusts her friend in everything, she will most likely not regret it, because an Aries man, more than any other Sun Sign man, does what is expected of him.

A few years ago I received a letter from an Aries woman who had married an Aries man.

They had three children: one born under the sign of Gemini and two Taurus.

They are so remarkably happy that I want to quote part of her letter.

"...And when I read aloud the last chapter about the Aries woman in your book "Sun Signs" to my husband, also an Aries, the part where it says: "She can be a little impulsive, independent, striving for dominance , but you must not take everything seriously," he asked: "What more does a man need?"

My Aries husband understands me, and we will never separate, although I sometimes threaten to leave him when our ram's horns clash.

Because, as your book says, if I “run into his arms at a time when the world is dark and gloomy for me,” he comforts me and never in his life will he say, “What have you done!”

I never suspected before how important this is for me.”

So, as you see, a close connection between Aries and O is possible. And at the same time, there is no need to sacrifice your courage, initiative and independence, determined by Mars.

Whatever the natural essence of Aries, but if the Ram girl has learned to control her nature and can even treat it with humor, instead of denying or even being ashamed of it, she has learned an important lesson. You must love yourself (which requires both honesty and humor) before someone else will love you.

If two Aries adhere to the golden rule and treat each other as they would like to be treated, their relationship will bring them both a break from emotional tension and also the best of all possible gifts - the freedom to be themselves, without fear of losing their loved one.

During an argument, in the heat of the moment, he may declare that he will leave her, but he is unlikely to ever do it.

Once he has fallen in love with an Aries woman, all other girls will seem boring to him. It may be easy with them, but they will not be interesting.

And she, no matter what comes out of her mouth in anger, will never leave her chosen one.