aries man and scorpio woman

Aries and Scorpio Relationships

In their secret dreams, Aries would like to see themselves as dashing pirates. After all, pirates are brave, romantic, and courageous. But like the pirate crew in Peter Pan, Aries often squanders all their energy by prematurely reacting emotionally — defending themselves. Aries never attacks until they are hit. Remember that Aries is the symbolic Child of the Zodiac, and children do not cry unless, of course, they are neglected or abused. But when they are in greater danger, their guardian Mars comes to the rescue. Scorpios are masters of attacking. They are characterized by coolness and a carefully developed strategy, exceptional patience and an amazing sense of guessing the weaknesses of others. You will not see a Scorpio fidgeting, relaxed or striking at random. They sting right on target with astonishing accuracy. That is why people rarely joke with the power of Pluto and do not wait for a second time: once is more than enough.

Strangely, in a relationship with Scorpio, Aries usually does not go straight ahead, as they often do with people born under other Sun signs.

There is something in those hypnotizing Pluto eyes, reflecting a calm balance and hidden strength and warning Aries: "Be careful, this water only seems calm, and you are just a paper lamb. What will you do in a big ocean that can close over your head, an ocean full of sharks, seaweed, strange night creatures, reefs and mystery? " Scorpios come from the sea or from the desert, whose quicksand is also incomprehensible to Aries. Aries instinctively senses the warning of danger. Oh, danger! This is the only word that makes Aries act, and the initial caution is replaced by a Mars attack. This is almost always a mistake. Aries is firmer, louder and more persistent than Scorpio. But when it comes time to show your cards, the typical Scorpio simply disappears or wraps himself in a detached silence, leaving Aries wondering: so which of them, in fact, has suffered a defeat? In other words, even if you seem to win over a Scorpio, you are never sure of it and are plagued by guesswork. It doesn't take much experience for the average Aries to realize that the best way to deal with a Scorpio is to cooperate at a safe and respectful distance. Close relationships are something else.

One day, not long before writing, I noticed that my ten-year-old Scorpio son was getting fatter and lazier because he was spending all his pocket money on ice cream, cake, lollipops, soda, and other treats.

"Michael," I commanded with all the directness and firmness of Mars, "you will stop eating that junk, and immediately. You will no longer bring sweets into the room and hide them in the closet. You will no longer secretly buy pies, popsicles and candies. Do you hear me?"

The answer was complete silence. Within two weeks he had put on another ten pounds. Then I stopped giving him pocket money to punish him: "Well, let's see what he comes up with now." He did. The following week I received several calls from teachers at school, telling me that Mike was behaving terribly and refusing to do his homework. Then, fortunately, I remembered that I was an astrologer. The ban on sweets was lifted. Pocket money not only began to be issued again, but in greater quantities. "Mike," I said to him this time softly and tenderly, "I believe you know best what is good and bad for you, because you are ruled by Pluto, the wisest planet in the entire solar system. I'm sorry I shouted at you. It's just that I find it offensive when the kids at school call you Keith. It's not a very appropriate nickname for an Eagle." He only smiled back, a barely noticeable, enigmatic smile, and looked at me attentively. I do not expect readers to believe what happened next, because if I had not seen it with my own eyes, I would not have believed it myself. Scorpio's inner strength and inviolability were recognized, and he began to make his own green salads after school (without the slightest hint from me), gave up all desserts, and went on a diet that would kill even a yogi. And all this without the slightest reminder from me and with such a steely willpower that it was simply frightening. He seriously took up karate, and the coaches were amazed at his good health, not to mention his scorpion-like grip. He did not want a black belt, what was important to him was to train to become stronger than the others at school. Karate is a wonderful training for young Scorpios, by the way. It teaches them to respect authority and, most importantly, it emphasizes defense rather than offense.

Within two months, no one called him Keith anymore. He had invented a new nickname for himself, MB, and his friends did not dare call him anything else. MB means Master of Eternity. It is symbolized by Pluto. My son then organized a group of his closest friends called the Pearls (the meaning is a secret, I cannot hope to ever know), dedicated to protecting themselves from any Manhattan mugger, young children and old people. This is what can happen when an impulsive Aries interacts with an Eagle of any age or gender with due respect.

Scorpio is reliable and does not compromise, which resonates with the soul of Aries, who is also honest and true to his ideals. Scorpio never gives up, never accepts defeat. Aries does too. Only sissies give in. This does not apply to these two.

Yes, there is another quality of Scorpio, elusive, insurmountable - something that Aries cannot understand. Willpower? Or just will? This quality creates a strong emotionally charged aura surrounding even calm, outwardly harmless Scorpios. This does not mean that every Scorpio attacks like Dracula. Many of these men and women are undoubtedly sweet and pleasant people. They are interesting, smart, polite. But they are not timid, unreliable and defenseless, so Aries should not be deceived by their soft voices, unobtrusive behavior and lack of overt aggression.

It is always important to remember that the Fire and Water elements combine, but can destroy each other (more on this at the end of the book and in other chapters dealing with the compatibility of Water and Fire signs). I know a Scorpio man who married a Scorpio woman after a long and indeed secret courtship. When they had a baby in April, my first impulse was to offer to take the child for myself. Little Aries under the restrictive power of two Scorpios? This would completely destroy his Mars ego. But Aries Johnny turned out to have benefited greatly from the quiet discipline and intuitive wisdom of his two Pluto-ruled parents. The advanced and enlightened Eagle couple are an excellent example of moral courage and personal integrity for a Mars boy. Scorpios are excellent teachers of willpower and stability for the explosive Aries, who, in a fit or a burst of enthusiasm, loses interest in what they have planned before the sparks have died down. There is always, of course, the danger that the power of Pluto, applied to Mars, will be too harsh. Aries of any age can be extinguished by the caution of the Scorpio Water element, making Aries of the ram type, an unnatural introvert, trying to stay in the shadows, which definitely contradicts the innate right of Mars. In more successful unions of Aries and Scorpio Aries will respond well to the strength of the Eagle - a friend, neighbor, business partner, lover or spouse - and will try to accept the endurance of Pluto, which will clearly benefit him. Likewise, the other half of the tandem, Scorpio, will learn a lot from confronting Aries's more open nature, with their free and friendly approach to life. However, Scorpio's emotional coldness can sometimes cool Aries's hot heart and shake their self-confidence.

There will be occasional moments when Scorpio's piercing gaze, full of evil disapproval, will seem to Aries like a ghost's gaze and will cause an inner tremor, despite the fact that they are ruled by Mars. I know one Scorpio father who, driven to despair by his three sons (one of them Aries), would become silent for a few seconds, and then say in an ominous voice: "I will remember this." The Eagle will never forget bad things. Never. But neither man, woman, nor child Scorpios will ever forget love or kindness.

Some Scorpios become slaves to their desires. They will always go towards their goal, even if it is obvious that it will lead to self-destruction. Aries understands this well. But Aries is a positive Fire sign, a carefree, Mars-ruled crusader, full of emotions and excited by the awareness of the danger of the mission. Scorpio is a negative Water sign, a seasoned veteran with a deep sense of reality and the strength to endure hardships, with no illusions about parades, the glitter of epaulettes and medals for bravery. Their strategies are different. Aries fights ferociously in the front ranks. Scorpio attacks suddenly, unexpectedly, from the rearguard. In a state of hostility, these two Sun signs remember that they are enemies by nature. The world is a better place, and it starts with love.