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The Relationship of Two Aries

What happens when Two Aries, who have quite compatible but equally unbalanced characters, become friends, neighbors, business partners, lovers, spouses, or are related to each other?

Is it typical for us Aries to analyze the changeable influence of the Sun signs in order to describe this?

Let me think. It won't take much time... That's it.

The answer is ready.

Of course it is. And for us, Aries, more than anyone else.

There's nothing to discuss here.

So, let's find out what's going on here.

I hate waiting for things to happen.

And you?

First of all, let's talk about the mistakes that two Rams can make when they enter into a close relationship. And there can be so many of these mistakes...

However, we can expect no less luck.

For Aries, the head always comes first.

And if the impulsive Ram lands head first in the swamp, then the prospect of ending upside down in the quagmire with a kindred spirit is still comforting: there is someone to talk to.

When the personal auras of these strong “egos” mix for the first time, make space for the launch of this rocket, for this sudden outburst of mutual sympathy. And indeed, how wonderful to meet a cheerful, energetic, open personality after a long time of communicating with all these scrupulous and boring pedants, misers who claim importance, and especially with cold and unapproachable people, next to whom it won't take long to freeze! And so you want to make friends with someone!

And is it any wonder that such a sudden mutual admiration?

Every Ram will consider it an unspeakable happiness that his new acquaintance is not embarrassed by extravagance, impulsiveness, incessant chatter, or being late for an appointment. And besides, now there is someone to go to the dentist with, without explaining why you need an escort.

Most Aries hate two things equally: going to the dentist and having their photo taken.

The picture may turn out to be a failure.

Sitting silently and motionless while the photographer adjusts the lighting in the studio is almost as unbearable for them as extracting a molar or putting in a filling.

The thought of how disgusting they look at that moment is no less terrifying for the proud Aries, who are extremely concerned about their appearance, than a toothache.

However, the fact that the Ram is afraid of the dentist does not in any way mean that he is a coward.

Mars generously endows these people with courage and is always ready to add more, if only a hint is given. Aries simply do not like medicines, cannot stand it when something is done to their head, eyes, ears, nose or mouth, cannot stand it if someone tries to change the course of their thoughts, influence their opinion.

Many Aries women, for example, very rarely visit a hairdresser, not doubting that he will not comb their hair the way they want, will not make a parting where it is necessary.

After all, on whose precious head does the hair grow? An Aries woman can suddenly, even if she later regrets it, cut her own hair too short or unevenly, but if someone else does it, it would be better for him not to be born at all. However, she will be no less angry with herself (Aries is not at all selective in anger).

Aries, so reverent about everything connected with his head, is indeed a pronounced Aries. And what kind of head to protect, marked with many scars from collisions with people and things!

It is easier and more reliable to do everything yourself.

Aries are not afraid of difficulties.

And whether something is done for oneself or for someone else, does it matter?

Mars only increases the noble impulse to give more than is required, and it does not matter what: time, money, love, devotion ...

Acting in their own interests.

Aries tend to create additional difficulties for themselves, piling up problems where everything could be resolved by itself.

You should not advise the Ram to "make his life bearable".

He is sure that it is worth making a little effort, and a bearable life will become much better, not allowing even the thought that it can easily get worse.

If one or both Rams are not influenced by the Moon or Ascendant in the signs of Capricorn, Taurus, Cancer, they can easily borrow money from each other and will not insist on returning the debt exactly on time, which also strengthens mutual sympathy.

Both solve any issues "head-on", including money issues.

They never deceive each other and do not even know how to do it.

From time to time, Aries can overestimate their solvency or even forget about a debt if they are carried away by something new, amazing, completely absorbing their attention, but this does not at all indicate their dishonesty and meanness.

Nothing hurts and angers the Ram more than groundless suspicions and mistrust. For a typical Aries, woman or man, not keeping their word given to anyone, including creditors, is below their dignity.

Sometimes forgetting to pay, at the same time they can for no reason spend everything they have, and even more.

You can’t accuse Rams of indecisiveness or caution in spending money, and that is why they are easy to rob.

Run out of money? So why be sad? Soon there will be more, and even more.

(Does a child worry about where to get a dry diaper or a bottle of milk? Of course not.

All of this appears as soon as the need arises.)

Each Ram (and this is due to the relationship between the two Sun signs) will be touchingly grateful to the other for the trust. Two Aries usually not only completely trust each other, but also will not take advantage of each other for selfish interests, which, of course, promotes the warmest relations.

The whole world for two Rams at first is a real carousel of happiness, but when the pink lollipop melts, disappointment may come.

When Fire meets Fire, a high and hot flame is born. But everything can turn out quite differently if they stubbornly try to break each other's easily hurt, but indomitable and invincible souls.

Among the extroverted Aries, in general, there are people who are not typical for this sign, whose "egos", under the influence of Mars, were, unfortunately, suppressed in childhood. Such people direct all their excess mental strength inward and concentrate completely on themselves, which is completely unnatural for them.

If two Aries who have entered into a close relationship belong to this group, it would not even occur to an outside observer that they are capable of provoking anger in each other, but this impression is deceptive.

Sooner or later, a skirmish will certainly occur over some reason.

When Mars collides with Mars, a grand war is inevitable.

Too close communication, not interrupted by at least brief separations, will certainly give rise to furious thunder and lightning.

However, attacks of wild hostility will always alternate with outbursts of mutual sympathy.

In order for the life of two Aries to be as harmonious as possible, you can suggest, for example, the following behavior option.

Let one Aries show his will on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, and the other one take the leading position on Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays. In this case, Saturday will become the day of a duel that will reveal the strongest. The winner will bandage the wounds of the defeated one with the sudden repentance and generosity characteristic of Aries, shedding tears of regret.

This should work, since no Aries will object to periodically finding themselves in a second role, knowing that the next day will return them to leadership.

All Aries know their own worth, but their own knowledge is not enough for them. They need to be valued and loved.

Of course, Aries will never stop fighting for the dominant position, but at the same time, he learns well from his own experience.

The shock of living together or communicating with someone as innocently thoughtless, conceited and aggressive as he is cannot help but soften any stubborn Ram.

True, life experience always adds scars to him. There are always more of them on the Aries heart than he allows himself to show or discuss.

Aries needs to understand that he is a child of the Zodiac, symbolizing the dawn of personal consciousness, the sunrise, the east, the daytime forces.

That is why most of them so fiercely fight against drowsiness, peace, inactivity, and never submit to fate.

The slightest bit of criticism or a brief attack of pessimism greatly suppresses the spirit of Aries, especially if the blow is inflicted by another Ram.

However, even deep resentment rarely lasts long and does not turn into permanent bitterness, because Aries childishly believes that a quarrel can be stopped, and friendship restored, where another person would have lost all hope.

The Ram does not even admit the thought that he is misjudging the situation.

However, no one, except Sagittarius and Gemini, is more likely to abandon an erroneous point of view or to bury yesterday's pain than an Aries who has been treated politely.

For a Ram of any gender and age, with the exception of the owner of a more pessimistic Moon sign and (or) Ascendant, every sunrise brings the rebirth of a broken dream, idea, goal or friendship.

Why look back or worry about what has already happened and what cannot be changed, if the new day is full of hopes?

Did you notice the phrase "who has been treated politely"?

The fact is that although Rams need polite treatment, politeness is not one of their unconditional personal virtues. They may be polite and considerate, but they do not always realize what it means to treat others gently if they want to be treated the same way.

They cannot be led by the nose or forced to do anything, even by those who are obviously stronger than them, and it is scary to think about two Rams confronting each other.

(A typical Aries is capable of fearless Resistance even at gunpoint.)

Rams expect their wishes to be fulfilled, that their orders will be obeyed without question as quickly as possible (unless their horoscopes have the softening influence of Pisces or Libra).

This is the instinctive urge of Mars to rebel.

The urge to initiate and lead is so strong in some Mars-influenced men, women, and children that even a friendly suggestion is often regarded as an intolerable intrusion, not to mention pressure from relatives, neighbors, friends, business partners, spouses, or lovers born under the same sign.

If one of the two Aries is stronger in the planetary arrangement (not wiser and more tolerant, which would be fortunate, but stronger), the weaker of the pair will gradually turn into a neurasthenic, almost constantly defending his right to exist or weighing every word and action for fear of doing something wrong or being misunderstood.

This is very sad, because such a pitiful embodiment of the proud spiritual strength of an astrological "animal" like the Ram contradicts the first law of astrology: be true to the essence of your Sun sign or you will lose the strong individual potential that belongs to you from birth.

Achieving a calm harmony (though this would undoubtedly be delightful) is not easy for two Aries, unless they learn to forgive and forget all but the most violent fights.

Avoiding them altogether is unlikely to be achieved, because Aries usually remember them for a long time for the same reason as children, who, while easily forgetting ordinary pain, remember with subconscious fear the deeper experience of painful offenses...

Sometimes for a lifetime.

Two Rams will have to constantly restrain the desire to kick the other, while passions are still running high.

They strike, but soon begin to feel guilty for the sudden hostility and try to moderate their anger by showering each other with tenderness and manifestations of friendliness in the form of unusual gifts.

Gifts, by the way, for the Ram are a way to express affection, love or ask for forgiveness, but he never gives a gift to buy friendship.

People under the influence of Mars despise the opportunity to buy what they want for money (they are used to demanding it), so such an unfair suspicion or accusation terribly offends them and hurts them very deeply. Aries give gifts from the bottom of their hearts, but they are often misunderstood by those who do not accept gifts without any ulterior motives, because they always act in this way themselves.

Fortunately, two Rams are unlikely to cause such pain to each other. Each Aries considers gift-giving to be part of their Mars nature. He loves both giving and receiving gifts equally.

This is one of the manifestations of Aries' wisdom.

He knows: if a gift is not accepted with joy, the joy of giving fades.

A typical Ram, like a small child, is delighted by any offering, and two Rams will break their backs, while being excited and happy, trying to express their delight to each other.

Aries is always sincere in his motives, but his titanic efforts are often not noticed by those whom Aries seeks to help.

Moreover, the difficulties that he often creates in doing so give rise to a disdainful attitude towards him.

Simply Aries' goals and his directness are often not accepted by more cynical people.

However, two Aries are able to help each other not to become a laughing stock or not to become victims of calculating and more sophisticated people who are ready to "cut" them.

Aries protect each other from those who seek to benefit from altruistic motives.

Such protection is necessary, because Rams are extremely vulnerable and simple-minded and completely devoid of dodge.

In any relationship between two Aries - in the family circle, at work, in love or in friendship - one thing is absolutely clear: passions will periodically heat up and burst to the surface. Catullus beautifully described the attitude of this Solar sign to its own emotional immaturity: "I hate, and I love...

You may ask: why?

I don't know. But I feel this way and I suffer from it."

Between two Rams, deception, pretense or hypocrisy are hardly possible, but there is also no need to talk about caution, common sense or practicality. In the relationship scheme of two Solar signs with the interweaving of two Mars influences, there are few neutral episodes.

They are equally capable of being in seventh heaven with happiness and of gnawing each other in a fit of rage, resentment and thoughtless vanity.

And nevertheless, they will always understand each other and approve of the most sublime rose-colored dreams of their partner, especially those that did not come true for one reason or another.

Perhaps they will try to start all over again. And their dreams may even come true.